Sunday, January 27, 2008

Happy Birthday to my sweetheart

August '83

I have been married to my beautiful wife for almost 25 years.  She knows me well and it's pretty hard to pull off a surprise.  Her birthday is coming up in a couple of days.  It's a milestone and she doesn't want to make a big deal out of it.  She knew I would want to do something.  She planned a weekend for two next weekend in Estes Park, Colorado, just a few miles to the north of Sunshine, assuring that I would not throw a surprise Birthday party.  We will be enjoying a quiet weekend together, away from friends and family.

I knew her friends and family would want to share their best wishes so I went ahead and planned something anyway.  Several weeks ago I started planning a surprise party.  Our Sunshine neighbors, Steve and Dee offered their house as a location for the event.  We set the date for last night, January 26th, 7PM. (You understand I couldn't have shared this until today or it wouldn't be a surprise.)  I sent out e-mail invitations and started making the arrangements.  Several neighbors volunteered to help.  We had to work very hard to keep it quiet for I knew if Jan found out about it she would not attend (She's really not a party pooper).

I casually mentioned that the band was going to have a drinks and a meeting on Saturday night, then dropped the subject.  On Tuesday Dee called and invited Jan to join and to bring a Veggie plate.  "Be there at 6:30 sharp" Dee told her.  We figured it would be better if the guests arrived after we were settled in with a drink or two.  All went as planned.  We were all sitting around chatting when several neighbors showed up at 7:05.  Our neighbor, Mary came in the front door and wished Jan a "Happy Birthday".  Jan looked as surprised as I have ever seen her.  Within a half an hour over 30 guests arrived.  Wane and Hildegard were out of town so Hildegard baked one of her famous cakes (White cake with a fruit filling, covered in chocolate and dressed with strawberries).  Mary baked a cheesecake and a carrot cake.  Almost everyone brought a snack tray to share.  Our two son's, Mike and Nathan joined us. There was plenty of wine, beer, soda pop and iced tea to go around.  We sang "Happy Birthday" and engaged in friendly conversation.  Before long 3 hours had passed and we all tired.  It was a wonderful evening in Sunshine.

Remember as my old friend Texas Bix Bender said "If you get to thinkin' you're a person of some influence, try orderin' somebody else's dog around." 

Smiles,

David

18 comments:

Anonymous said...

Congratulations on your anniversary to come... sounds like your wife had a wonderful birthday. Nice going
Sandra

Anonymous said...

You pulled it off in a big and wonderful way, David.  Happy Birthday to your beautiful wife.  Enjoy your weekend away!

Michelle

Anonymous said...

Happy Birthday Jan:)  have a good week David you keep the snow up on the mountain ok? LOL

Deb

Anonymous said...

oh i enjoyed the old picture of you and your wife :)
sounds like it was a successfull surprise!
and the snacks sound very yummy :)
hope you guys have a good week
emily

Anonymous said...

Happy Birthday ! What a great way to celebrate ! Great picture David, you two look gorgeous !
Be well,
Ellen

Anonymous said...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Jan!  And many more happy and healthy ones!   David, what a sweet, loving thing to do! ---Better than flowers!
Evangeline

Anonymous said...

THAT WAS SO SWEET OF YOU. AND YOU DID IT SO GRACEFUL THAT I KNOW YOUR WIFE DIDN'T MIND HAVING THE BIRTHDAY PARTY AFTER ALL. YOU TWO ARE A BEAUTIFUL COUPLE, INSIDE AND OUT. LOVE YOUR PHOTOGRAPHS, YOU ALWAYS HAVE SUCH BEAUTIFUL SHOTS, KEEP THEM COMING, THAT WILL BE THE CLOSEST THAT I WILL EVER COME TO COLORADO.
BEST WISHES ALWAYS,
LIZ IN VIRGINIA
http://journals.aol.com/bethjunebug/Bethjunebug

Anonymous said...

How sweet of you! Happy Birthday to your girl :) love Vicky

Anonymous said...

Happy Birthday to you Sweet Jan! What a wonderful way to surprise her! (Hugs) Indigo

Anonymous said...

Happy Birthday to Jan - you did surprise her lol

Anonymous said...

Happy Birthday Jan!

And well done to you David.

Anonymous said...

Happy Birthday to Jan!!
I think it's wonderful you created such a memorable experience for her. Thats a good hubby, and a kind soul.
Rebecca

Anonymous said...

Bring back the mustache.

Anonymous said...

I bet that was such a fun evening for your wife and friends!  Glad the party was a success.

Kara :)

Anonymous said...

Well planned and extremely well executed.  I love it when a plan comes together!  I came her tonight byway of Guido and glad I did.  Enjoyed reading a few of your entries and will be back!
Sam

Anonymous said...

Oh David how lovely your Jan is a lucky Lady ..lovely picture of you both ...love Jan xx

Anonymous said...

Hi there!!!! What a neat surprise.  I like that idea of arriving first and then the person finding out later it's their party.  LOL  That's good!  
Happy birthday, belated, to your wife.  Hope all is going well out your way.
Working hard, studying hard out my way - and let's not forget coughing hard.  LOL  

Anonymous said...

How nice!  I bet the boys and you both had fun!  

be well,
Dawn